Saving Your Marriage With the Right Strategies

The one mistake that people tend to make is to believe that marriage will fix their personal problems. Unfortunately, marriage tends to actually intensify the feelings that are attached to your whole personality, not fix or even diminish them.

Basically, this means that two people coming into a marriage together will not eliminate some of their issues, but multiply them or add them up just like 1+1=2.

For example, if one of the spouses tends to be messy and the other tends to be unorganized. The results of the two will be unorganized mess. Downfalls and issues will be doubled. This in turn will start creating conflicts in a marriage as issues will surface more and more often as time goes on.

The good news is that you can save your marriage with the right strategies. The sooner you realize that you marriage is going on a wrong path, the better. If neither of the two spouses were willing to solve the problems the marriage situation will go from bad to worse and the marriage will end in divorce.

The challenges that may surface, however, is knowing what is the REAL problem or problems are. What needs to be attended first and what minor issues could be adjusted later.

If you wish to save your marriage by applying the right strategies you might need to look for an expert who will be able to help you discern the real issues that are sabotaging your marriage. It is very important for you to understand that those issues are NEVER outside of you, but ALWAYS inside of you. There are issues that you and your spouse have been carrying around all your life, but as a single person they never were really apparent, or at least they never bothered anyone who didn't have to live under the same roof as you such as your spouse.

In marriage you are living in very close contact with the other person, therefore those issues will be in someone else's face every single day and theirs in your. This is the roots of most marital problems. You need to address those issues and you will be addressing the marital problems that sprung from them. You just need to apply the right strategies to save your marriage. Those strategies have been applied by many couples on the verge of divorce. In many cases it started even when only one spouse was willing to do the work. So, don't worry if you already know that your spouse won't be willing to participate.

In the end your spouse will realize that something is different. The only question is, are your willing to help yourself to save your marriage by applying the right strategies?

Do you wish to save your marriage? If your answer is YES, you have come to the right place. Discover and find out more about a comprehensive system available for people like you, in marriage crisis, who wish to rescue their marriage. Don't waste precious time and start applying the right strategies to save your marriage now.

A Writer's Lament

'You are not a writer, '
She softly said.
'For all you've written,
I have read.
And I've come
To this conclusion, son.
You've nothing in
That soddy head

'That holds the least
Part of a thought.
For a writer writes
Things you do not.
So, I'm sorry, kid,
But you're not one.
You lack the skill
And the afterthought.

'Which makes a writer
Great, you see?
And lifts him out
From mediocrity.
Which fires him up
And makes it fun.
But your writing
Stinks abysmally.

'Your metaphors lack
Skill and grace.
And your tensive verbs
Are all out of place.
They do not fit
Where you've set each pun.
And you've simply not
The minute trace

'Of talent, boy.
From what I see
You scribble down words
With such ferocity.
But you're inept.
You bewilder the one
Who reads your
Work introspectively.

'So, in all
Earnestness my friend,
I'll bring my
Tirade To an end,
And I'll steal your pen
And paper, son.
And pray you
Never write again.'

A Wordy Meal

A strange (learn ad) friend John
ate delicious dictionaries daily
for breakfast lunch and tea
at mourn noon and night.

A thesaurus is a ponderous meal
best not served at bedtime
a meal John spat out like hearty tacks
in sentences aimed at unsuspecting strangers.

A forever friend

A friend walk in when the rest of the world walks out.

Sometimes in life,

You find a special friend;

Someone who changes your life just by being part of it.

Someone who makes you laugh until you can't stop;

Someone who makes you believe that there really is good in the world.

Someone who convinces you that there really is an unlocked door just waiting for you to open it.

This is Forever Friendship.

when you're down,

and the world seems dark and empty,

Your forever friend lifts you up in spirits and makes that dark and empty world

suddenly seem bright and full.

Your forever friend gets you through the hard times, the sad times, and the confused times.

If you turn and walk away,

Your forever friend follows,

If you lose you way,

Your forever friend guides you and cheers you on.

Your forever friend holds your hand and tells you that everything is going to be okay.

And if you find such a friend,

You feel happy and complete,

Because you need not worry,

Your have a forever friend for life.

preface

Science is a dominant theme in our culture. Since it touches almost every facet of our life, educated people need at least some acquaintance with its structure and operation. They should also have an understanding of the subculture in which scientists live and the kinds of people they are. An understanding of general characteristics of science as well as specific scientific concepts is easier to attain if one knows something about the things that excite and frustrate the scientist.

This book is written for the intelligent student or lay person whose acquaintance with science is superficial; for the person who has been presented with science as a musty storehouse of dried facts; for the person who sees the chief objective of science as the production of gadgets; and for the person who views the scientists as some sort of magician. The book can be used to supplement a course in any science, to accompany any course that attempts to give an understanding of the modern world, or – independently of any course – simply to provide a better understanding of science. We hope this book will lead readers to a broader perspective on scientific attitudes and a more realistic view of what science is, who scientists are, and what they do. It will give them an awareness and understanding of the relationship between science and our culture and an appreciation of the roles science may play in our culture. In addition, readers may learn to appreciate the relationship between scientific views and some of the values and philosophies that are pervasive in our culture.

We have tried to present in this book an accurate and up-to-date picture of the scientific community and the people who populate it. That population has in recent years come to comprise more and more women. This increasing role of women in the scientific subculture is not an unique incident but, rather, part of the trend evident in all segments of society as more women enter traditionally male-dominated fields and make significant contributions. In discussing these changes and contribution, however, we are faced with a language that is implicitly sexist, one that uses male nouns or pronouns in referring to unspecified individuals. To offset this built-in bias, we have adopted the policy of using plural nouns and pronouns whenever possible and, when absolutely necessary, alternating he and she. This policy is far form being ideal, but it is at least an acknowledgment of the inadequacy of our language in treating half of the human race equally.

We have also tried to make the book entertaining as well as informative. Our approach is usually informal. We feel, as do many other scientists, that we shouldn’t take ourselves too seriously. As the reader may observe, we see science as a delightful pastime rather than as a grim and dreary way to earn a living.

Prerequisite Lessons

repackaged eagerly sought out still
similar determined tutor stereotypes now
revamped eagerly ad lip answering
a higher more prestigious new calling

high-status impressive undergrads
esteemed exalted young minds
keen eager minds grade willing
seek out privileged private lessons

to learn scan forth search tutor out
price paid is bartered ephemeral time paid
traditional lessons prerequisite lessons
examinations chit bargaining entry point